The simple idea I believe love is all about

Love isn't at first sight! Love isn't an instant overwhelming feeling of one person truly being for you. Its not found in the throws of an unsuspected moment of passion. Its not found in the eyes or in the comfort of a persons presence. Its not formed in any amount of beautiful words, a song or a single moment. Love and true love is discovered down the line. when such moments have faded, but the lasting love, is your partner feeling your erect penis in their back, and not only, not taking offence to it, but giving a sleepy reach around so you can both sleep in peace.
That to me, is the true definition of love.